Honeymoon Part 1 – Zion National Park (Angel’s Landing, Observation Point, and the Subway)

Our honeymoon was so quintessentially American.  We planned it that way.  After two years traveling abroad, we felt it was time to do some of the great American trips for our glorious return.  This meant hitting up some of the wonders of the Southwest including Zion National Park and the Grand Canyon.

We spent 9 days in the Southwest.  We began our trip in Las Vegas.  And Vegas, to my mind, is equivalent to the first ring of hell.  It’s gaudy, and trashy, and gross.  I hate gambling, and worse than that I hate the depressing sight of other people gambling.  Everyone in Vegas appears to think their personal experience is the only thing that matters.  People walk into you.  People smoke inside.  People wear clothes that make me queasy.  In Vegas I decided that perhaps I don’t really like people, as a general whole.

The one highlight was seeing the Cirque du Soleil show, “O”, which incorporates an element of water – a giant pool!  That was amazing.  A few years ago while on a canyoneering course in Escalante, I met a diver for the show and as he described the responsibilities he had: diving through and around moving equipment, providing oxygen to performers while they are underwater, and orchestrating the show’s logistics from the depths. I was pretty interested in actually seeing the show. Thankfully, we did just that.  And, it was a true highlight.

As soon as we rented our car and began to head out of the city bound for St. George, Utah my stress levels diminished noticeably.  Poor Rick must have thought I had buyer’s remorse the first few days of our marriage.  I was so moody!  Part of that moodiness was coming down from the adrenaline rush of the wedding weekend, but it also derived from some complicated emotions that came up in the days just prior to the wedding.  I had been contacted by an old love, with a strange and heart wrenching letter.  It tore at me, and truly made me miss my someone who was one of my closest friends, who no longer is in my life for important reasons, but who nonetheless means a great deal to me.  I needed some mental space to take in the incident – and Vegas was not the place for that.

Luckily, we headed to Zion National Park after a night in the beautiful little town of St. George, where we stayed at the most adorable little historic B&B.  Once in Zion, we set up our campsite and began hiking.  The first day we did Angel’s Landing, which was amazing and terrifying for me since I am not a lover of heights.

Here’s a pretty good summary of why I was terrified:

A glimpse of why this was a scary hike
A glimpse of why this was a scary hike

We also did the Narrows, which is an incredible hike in a narrow slot canyon. Unfortunately, we hadn’t brought the appropriate gear to do it right by walking up the river the full distance.  We went a short distance into the river, and decided it would be best to turn back.

The next day we hiked to Observation Point, up from Weeping Rock through Echo Canyon.  It was a very scenic hike and also a good climb.  We ascended about 2000 feet up a series of switchbacks to the top of the canyon and then cruised for a while along the rim. Altogether the hike is about 8 miles.  Along the way there were some incredible views of slot canyons below us and wild sandstone striations.  When we reached the top of the canyon and walked out to the point we were greeted with the first snow we’d seen all season and a great view of Angel’s Landing from above as well as the winding Virgin River carving through the valley.  My decision to wear shorts was pretty questionable at that point, so we hurriedly finished our lunch before we dashed back to the bottom.  When we arrived back at the canyon bottom we felt that we still had some gas in our legs, so we headed to the Emerald Pools for a short hike of about 3 miles.  It was a pretty walk, but nothing compared the previous three hikes.  Though a small perk was that on the walk back along the Virgin River we startled several rutting bucks which made for some excitement.

Our final hike in Zion (and my favorite!) was a hike a bit more off the beaten path, which required a permit from the rangers.  It was a slot canyon called the Subway, which can be accessed many different ways.  We chose to hike up into it from the Left Fork, which is a less technical route –  a perfect fit for us as Rick hasn’t done previous canyoneering and in November the water is icy cold.  After descending about 400 feet into a boulder-strewn wash, we slowly made our way up the valley until the canyon narrowed and the river began to cascade over several falls.  We climbed the falls as the canyon walls rose around us and then turned a corner to see “the Subway” looming in front of us – a giant bulbous opening at the bottom of an otherwise narrow slot canyon.  We explored the pools formed within the subway itself and began to make our way into the more technical sections above.  This is unfortunately, where our hike ended as the cold water and air temperatures made it too risky to continue without more serious canyoneering gear.

The Subway was my favorite for a few reasons.  The hike in as we made our way up-valley was warm, sunny, and the turning cottonwood leaves brought beautiful splashes of autumn color to everything.  The terrain was diverse, ranging from loose scree, sun-baked sandstone, and black metamorphic rocks in the early part of the canyon, to fractured sandstone and sculpted slot canyons as we moved upriver.  Along the way we navigated technical hiking over icy rocks strewn across the drainage by countless flash floods.  It made for challenging and endlessly exciting hiking.  It brought me back to my childhood of exploring the ravines around my parent’s house – getting wet, climbing up and over logs and rocks, squeezing between boulders, and searching for the right foot placement each step of the way.  I was certainly never bored!

It felt good to get out and really hike for several days.  With my focus shifting to yoga over the past year, I haven’t worked my legs the way one does hiking in quite a while.  It felt good to have a pack on my hips, my big old boots on, and to pound out the waves of emotion that come with all that we have done over the last few weeks – from moving, and riding the adrenaline wave of the wedding, to coming down in the oddest of all places for that: Vegas.  Pounding out the miles with Rick, silently thinking, or passing commentary on the landscape around us or the book we read together really helped to forge a bond between us.  This kind of trip is what we love; moving our bodies, seeing new places, and immersing ourselves in the land.  It was such a joy to experience beautiful Zion with him.

Of course, Zion was just one part of the trip.  The best part, the Grand Canyon, will have to be discussed in another post!

Surreal life

I’m sitting in bed, watching the sunrise over the mountains outside of Las Vegas.  I’m in the honeymoon suite at the Bellagio – a place which meant nothing to me until  saw the Hangover 3 on my plane ride back from Australia.  The whole thing is surreal for a few reasons.  First, I have never had any desire whatsoever to visit Las Vegas.  Two, I somehow ended up here on my honeymoon.

But, let’s back track a bit here.  It’s been a while since I last posted.  In the interim, I quit my job, moved home from Australia, hit the ground running planning the remainder of my wedding, was interrupted from my planning by an unexpected contact from an estranged person in my past just a few days before my wedding, and then proceeded to have all my friends – most of whom I hadn’t seen in two years or more come in to my hometown for a weekend of amazingess, I married my Rickster, and now here I am in Vegas, watching the sunrise and eating minibar snacks.

So, the wedding.  Let’s start with that.  This post may have to be divided into multiple entries.

From day one, Rick and I knew we wanted it to be our own – personal and reflective of our personalities.  But, as these things do, it began to take on a life of its own.  We originally wanted an outdoor summer wedding in Colorado but neither of us wanted to wait over a year to get married.  Then we considered a winter wedding in Colorado.  We looked high and low and found some amazing places, but after announcing our plans to family, I learned that my Grandma who had been undergoing lung cancer treatment, wouldn’t be able to come to Colorado.  So, we changed plans,  ramped up our wedding planning, pulled our date up a few months, and took the wedding to my hometown of Milwaukee.  She never made it to the wedding. We lost her in May, just a few months after she learned of our engagement.  Though I know she was there in spirit her absence was a hole that many of us felt.  But, perhaps our choice to bring it to Milwaukee was for the best because anyway because in planning from a world away one needs people on the ground and my parents were the engine that made this wedding happen.

The weekend was nuts.  I am not even going to rein in my enthusiasm for it.  Rick and I hadn’t seen many of our friends in the entirety of our time in Australia.  It was a reunion, and wedding, and a hell of a party all wrapped into one.  My bridesmaids started coming in a week before the wedding.  Katie, Jane, and Max, the Maids of Honor, were the first.  They arrived in town and from there the momentum just didn’t stop.  We finished projects, we went to yoga, we made a Photo Booth, we met with people from the club, we verified orders and gave orders (and apparently I even do it in my sleep).   It was so much fun.  By the time Thursday night hit, all my girls were in town, most of Rick’s guys were too, and we had our Stag and Hens nights.  We all met up in the end, but prior to that my Aunts, Mom, sisters, all of my bridesmaids, and many of my good friends took a Pedal Tavern around the city, had an amazing dinner at Benelux, and then we took a bus from bar to bar, finally meeting up with the boys at Wolski’s – which we closed, replete with stickers and assorted other “I closed Wolski’s” paraphernalia.  It was SO much fun.  I only wish we could have ridden the pedal tavern longer.  My Maids of Honor did a STELLAR job planning.

Friday we all were in need of some TLC.  We did our nails, sipped coffee and attempted to restore ourselves from lack of sleep and overindulgence.  I took my bridesmaids out to lunch and gave them some gifts as a thank you for helping take part in my wedding.  They, in return, gave me a fork to an old bike with a ribbon tied to it.  It was a symbol of the fund they are starting for me to buy a touring bike before Rick and I head on our antipodal adventures.  So, needless to say I was thrilled!

We met up for the rehearsal and rehearsal dinner, which included a brewery tour at Sprecher Brewery in Milwaukee.  It was a fun night.  We had Chipotle cater it – obviously Rick had his hand in that one.  But I have to agree that the food and beer were a great combination.  It was a perfect opportunity for some of our out-of-town guests and close friends to spend some more time with us.  And it was low-key and fun.  We then took a school bus to Trinity Irish Pub, where we met up with the wider group of guests getting into town for some drinks and more food.  I was taking it easy Friday, so I didn’t stay out late, but the party was a good one.  It was so much fun to see people after years of being gone.  I’m surprised I didn’t spend the whole time crying from the excitement of it.  I probably should have stayed out, because I came back to our hotel, laid in bed, and proceeded to sit there thinking about stuff – giddy and nervous – until about 2:30 when Rick made it home.  So, yeah, sleeping wasn’t a big part of my weekend.

Saturday was like clockwork. Sort of.  The girls all went to the salon and got our hair and make up done.  Which was hilarious because by that time we had two nights of going out under our belts, drama was festering – in a good way, and we were eager to recount the previous night’s shenanigans together, possibly over a bloody mary or two, while the lovely stylists did our hair.

We headed to the Women’s Club of Wisconsin, which is absolutely a beautiful spot within walking distance of all the hotels we had out guests in. I had never been to it prior to the wedding – though my mom celebrated her debutante party there and took dancing classes there as a child.  It’s got three floors, the uppermost of which is a ballroom – which we used for both our ceremony and reception.  It was a gorgeous spot for our ceremony.  We had some family friends do all of our decorations.  I helped them pick out some flowers I liked – seasonal, wild-looking flowers, with gourds and pumpkins and stuff.  They also made these amazing urns filled with curly willow, lit up with small lights.  I know it was a LOT of work for them, but they were so happy and gracious.  It was an amazing gift to Rick and me.  The room looked exactly as I imagined it would.  I couldn’t thank them enough for turning my dreams and pinterest stalkings into reality.

Our ceremony was like a dream.  My lovely bridesmaids all looked beautiful.  Three of them sang one of my favorite Wailin’ Jennys songs called “One Voice”.  Rick’s friend Manuel, read the Buddhist marriage blessing, Ryan sang Bob Dylan’s “To Make You Feel My Love”, and Justin did the whole ceremony.  It was perfectly us.  Perfectly light-hearted but meaningful.  Perfect.  Our vows were ours.  The ceremony was peppered with our own words that we had shared with Justin over email in the months leading up to the wedding. It was amazing and sweet.  We had a bagpiper walk us in, and then lead us out.  Bagpipers always make me cry.

After the ceremony, Rick and I followed the bagpiper straight outside, before anyone saw us leaving, and we headed down the road together with a couple of Spotted Cow beers.  We watched the sun set by ourselves out in the autumn dusk, before rejoining the wedding reception.  A police car passed us carrying our open containers – we laughed that it would be hilarious if we got a ticket on our wedding day.  But, he went on without incident.

And then the night unfolded.  There were drinks.  Many.  A band.  A good one!  Toasts. My dad actually killed his toast.  He brought out my stuffed bear from childhood.  It was amazing.  I think he is a better lawyer and public speaker than I’ve even given him credit for.  My sisters made beautiful toasts that made my eyes water, my lifey had a toast which almost made me pee in my pants it was so funny.  Gchat conversations from the beginning of dating Rick – references to him potentially being crazy because he runs ultramarathons – it was unreal.  I had to go back to my conversations to verify that indeed, I did say all the things she quoted me on.

And we danced and sang and when the Women’s Club kicked us out, we went for more at the County Clare where we all stayed.  It was so much fun.

I slept in my wedding dress.  There were too many buttons with tiny little hooks. After the night’s shenanigans, Rick and I couldn’t get it off.  I woke up at 6 in the morning and begged him to please “get me out of the thing!”  So romantic.  He got me out of it.

It was a fun, beautiful weekend.

The night before the wedding, gale force winds whipped up all over the city.  Out hotel room’s windows were shaking.  Winds were still whipping through the air during the early part of Saturday.  The same sort of winds rushed around my Grandma’s house the night she passed away.  They took down tree limbs and power lines.  The revisit of such gusts seemed to me to be a sign that she was in attendance for the weekend.  My mom, sisters, aunts, and I all wore pieces of her jewellery the night of the wedding.  She was entirely there.  I missed her that day, but I felt her and I know she was taking part in her own way.

I can’t write anymore.  Though, there is much more to be said.  Today we leave Vegas (thank god!) and head to Zion.  I cannot wait!   I want to have alone time in the desert with my husband and silence.  That’s all I want right now.  I cannot wait to camp in the cold and hike in the dry sun.